My bf is mad at me for I stopped by to their house unannounced?

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We could be dealing with a really closeted case and maybe the intrusion that was not planned felt too close for comfort to the boyfriend, especially if you haven't been to his house before and his parents and siblings don't know you or even anything about you. That's my guess, but Aaycles says it right, we need more information on the kind of rules you've set together, if any. People don't respond well to house call surprises anymore. I know I don't, except that, for my boyfriend, it ought not to be a problem. That's why I'm not sure what your boyfriend was trying to tell you or not tell you by not answering. It could be that he's a selfish bastard, or it could mean that he didn't want you to come round that day, which doesn't sound very nice, but there could be a good reason for it. I think he needs to explain but I wouldn't push him too hard for it. He may realise later that he made a mistake in judgement about not answering your calls when you were entitled, as his boyfriend, to an explanation or a message of "please don't come around today."