11-28-2010, 10:22 PM
Ok that clears the picture a bit... He's really dl, and if you're going to date such a guy you'll either have to respect that need for privacy or have to change for a boyfriend who can be bothered to love you back as you need and deserve... I'm afraid it seems to me like you need to forget about the whole thing if you want to patch up or ... drop him.
I don't think he's handling this very nicely. I don't think it's too much to ask someone to text you to tell you he's got home ok. That's what lovers do. He seems very selfish to me.
Is he the one trying to cheat on you? And was he afraid of being caught out??? Have you envisaged that? Maybe he had other plans that day that didn't include you, and for a reason ??? He knew you'd be busy all day with family and Thanksgiving. Mind you, I'm not saying he is cheating on you, but his accusations for such a little thing make me think he was up to no good... sorry to think that. But then again, that will only create more drama, so maybe it's best to clam up on it, just keep your eye open.
I don't think he's handling this very nicely. I don't think it's too much to ask someone to text you to tell you he's got home ok. That's what lovers do. He seems very selfish to me.
Is he the one trying to cheat on you? And was he afraid of being caught out??? Have you envisaged that? Maybe he had other plans that day that didn't include you, and for a reason ??? He knew you'd be busy all day with family and Thanksgiving. Mind you, I'm not saying he is cheating on you, but his accusations for such a little thing make me think he was up to no good... sorry to think that. But then again, that will only create more drama, so maybe it's best to clam up on it, just keep your eye open.