My bf is mad at me for I stopped by to their house unannounced?

[TimeBandit]

I'm with marshlander, this relationship sounds like too much work.

From what you've shared, your boyfriend sounds a bit of a jerk, to be honest. Sometimes it's hard to see what someone is really like when you really want it to work out. I think it's perfectly reasonable to want to be with someone who actually wants to spend time with you. It just sounds like your boyfriend wants to keep you at arm's length. If I am with someone I really dig, I love to hear from them. What you have shared makes me think that this guy is "just not that into you." Of course, I could be wrong, maybe he just has problems with emotional intimacy; but then you'd have to wonder if you are willing to be with someone who will probably always frustrate you because he can't give you the affection and love that you want (and deserve, I think).

If I were you, as hard as it probably is, I wouldn't contact him again. You've done enough to show you care and want to spend time with him, now it's his turn to reciprocate. Honestly I hope you take a break and then find somebody else who actually is chuffed to see you.