10-27-2007, 04:15 PM
Oh boy,
Welcome to my world. My husband jokes that I have more luck with straight guys than with gay. (Not really true, but also not a lie). Personaly I think it has to do with the vast majority of people actually jave bi tendencies....to a larger or lesser degree. Depending on who they have been brought up or a host of other things they've never even considered it.....until alcohol comes into play or they meet the right gay man who gets in under their radar.So I just always figure if they've got even one bi gene I'll find it.
The question of whether you take advantage of the situation depends on how well you know them, how you think they'll handle it afterwards...how you think YOU'LL handle it afterwards. If it's a good friend I'd think more than twice (unless of course they tip the OMG HOT factor...;-) ) and if they are not such a good friend, well maybe they shouldn't be getting drunk if they know they come onto guys. In the end it's a call everyone has to make for themselves.
(But it's definately the reason why I believe there are far more bisexuals than we give credit for. My personal experience is far too great to think anything else. Or prisons and sailing ships ar another good example. )
It's also something I think we are going to see more and more of the more visable gay men are. Social comfort zones shift and as we are more out so will these guys who might be interested in the occasional man on man action be more comfortable asking for it.
Welcome to my world. My husband jokes that I have more luck with straight guys than with gay. (Not really true, but also not a lie). Personaly I think it has to do with the vast majority of people actually jave bi tendencies....to a larger or lesser degree. Depending on who they have been brought up or a host of other things they've never even considered it.....until alcohol comes into play or they meet the right gay man who gets in under their radar.So I just always figure if they've got even one bi gene I'll find it.
The question of whether you take advantage of the situation depends on how well you know them, how you think they'll handle it afterwards...how you think YOU'LL handle it afterwards. If it's a good friend I'd think more than twice (unless of course they tip the OMG HOT factor...;-) ) and if they are not such a good friend, well maybe they shouldn't be getting drunk if they know they come onto guys. In the end it's a call everyone has to make for themselves.
(But it's definately the reason why I believe there are far more bisexuals than we give credit for. My personal experience is far too great to think anything else. Or prisons and sailing ships ar another good example. )
It's also something I think we are going to see more and more of the more visable gay men are. Social comfort zones shift and as we are more out so will these guys who might be interested in the occasional man on man action be more comfortable asking for it.
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