Need to know who I am

[SrChulo]

I definitely had the post-cum guilt while growing up. I always feared that cumming after sex with a guy would be 100x as terrible. To my surprise, it wasn't. It just didn't happen! I think that having sex (or... getting a blowie or whatever it was) was so real, and right in front of my eyes, that I knew it had to be right. And I had someone there with me after cumming, so you don't feel alone and depressed. Not sure if anyone else has had this experience.

I'm not saying go do something right now... I think you should do some thinking for yourself, but don't get too hung up on it. When you're ready to try to be with a guy, give it a shot. If it doesn't feel right at any point, just stop. We've all been through that before, so it's very understandable.