I’m Gay and Unnerved

[marshlander]

Unless he touches you with your permission he has overstepped the mark. I'm never quite sure what "making out" means, but if it means you were kissing it is absolutely normal to feel one's way on to further intimacies. Pretty much all men behave like this whatever their orientation. One person may have boundaries beyond which they don't want the other to go. That is also quite normal. It is less normal to grab the other person by the throat and slam them against a wall. :eek:

If you can't cope with intimacy in a more civilised way it may be a good idea to seek out some help in the form of counselling.