12-05-2010, 11:59 PM
I'm exactly the same, in my head the perfect man for me was older but then I met this egregious 21 year old who I really liked. Although thinking about it made me feel a bit wired the fact that he was taller and much stronger (he's freakishly strong for a 21 year old) than me made it OK to date someone older. I know it's a little thing but him being older than you will bother you at times but don't let it ruin this because it's so insignificant. If you want to be dominant in the relationship then go ahead and if you don't then let him be dominant, it really won't be that hard.