12-06-2010, 01:52 PM
Yeah right, I don't think the question was asked in quite the context everyone is imagining.
I think one of the things to do is back off... if you really can't stand the smell. Do something else with your bodies. You don't have to indulge in anal or rimming until you think the situation is clear and clean enough for you. I think Lerajie's solution to lure him into the bathroom is a good one, you can always pretext that you're not feeling clean enough yourself. The bathroom is another fun place to experiment with sex. If he doesn't follow you there, find another excuse. Remind him that it's not exactly hygienic to be rimming an unclean (festering) hole but that you'd like to maybe indulge him if he gets his act together. If he fails to respond, back off, as said earlier.
Otherwise, be realistic, the anus and bowel system deliver faeces; that's their function. You need to face up to that fact, maybe put yourself in that mindset too. Now you can tell your partner that you have an aversion to the smell, and get him to use the toilet before you start, or use a douche, but if you dare not say anything, change your plans. It's as simple as that.
I'm sure, after a little more acquaintance, that the subject can be broached and treated accordingly and more comfortably.
I think one of the things to do is back off... if you really can't stand the smell. Do something else with your bodies. You don't have to indulge in anal or rimming until you think the situation is clear and clean enough for you. I think Lerajie's solution to lure him into the bathroom is a good one, you can always pretext that you're not feeling clean enough yourself. The bathroom is another fun place to experiment with sex. If he doesn't follow you there, find another excuse. Remind him that it's not exactly hygienic to be rimming an unclean (festering) hole but that you'd like to maybe indulge him if he gets his act together. If he fails to respond, back off, as said earlier.
Otherwise, be realistic, the anus and bowel system deliver faeces; that's their function. You need to face up to that fact, maybe put yourself in that mindset too. Now you can tell your partner that you have an aversion to the smell, and get him to use the toilet before you start, or use a douche, but if you dare not say anything, change your plans. It's as simple as that.
I'm sure, after a little more acquaintance, that the subject can be broached and treated accordingly and more comfortably.
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