12-13-2010, 12:11 AM
Hi Craig, welcome to the forums...
My first impression was that maybe the guys you are hooking up with are just in it for a quick shot and not really satisfying you, seems obvious enough. Without any details it's hard to really make an honest opinion. I've always found sex better with people I'm close to because you want to please each other, rather than just yourself. Selfish lovers are probably gonna leave you feeling like that.
If you're not truly satisfied, it's worth looking at what drives you sexually, and at what point you're really left wanting. Not to get too detailed but - it might not last long enough, whatever. What I'm getting at is that it may be something deeper than your partners and biology that's leaving you dissatisfied?
lol and as for 2-3 dates in one night : sounds crazy and fun; if it works for you be careful.
My first impression was that maybe the guys you are hooking up with are just in it for a quick shot and not really satisfying you, seems obvious enough. Without any details it's hard to really make an honest opinion. I've always found sex better with people I'm close to because you want to please each other, rather than just yourself. Selfish lovers are probably gonna leave you feeling like that.
If you're not truly satisfied, it's worth looking at what drives you sexually, and at what point you're really left wanting. Not to get too detailed but - it might not last long enough, whatever. What I'm getting at is that it may be something deeper than your partners and biology that's leaving you dissatisfied?
lol and as for 2-3 dates in one night : sounds crazy and fun; if it works for you be careful.