My Ex Is Driving Me Craaaazy

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I apologize ahead of time if I am crossing any boundaries...giving advice on the Internet is really strange for me because I cannot gauge how much I can be direct and truthful which is my normal approach without crossing boundaries...in person I can sense body language and pull back...so for what it is worth....

For what you said before I think he is an alcoholic and that is a separate beast and a disease and what you have said prior to this indicates behavior typical of the disease. If you want to understand his behavior and actions you can check out a gay al anon meeting (or a straight one for that matter) and it will be clearer...his behavior is indicative of an alcoholic. Insight and understanding can help you come to terms with what you are dealing with a help you make clearer decisions about your future with or without him.

I would be happy to elaborate but as I said this is a sensitive topic and I truly have no desire to cross any boundaries.