Stereotyping

[Sil]

Hey Nikolai...

There's a profile pic of my hubby and he's not your standard pin-up material but I love him to bits. I love bigger/natural guys and really hate the myth of us all wanting washboard abs and perfect bodies; it certainly is a big part of it for the majority but don't lose confidence over it.

heh, I dunno how much you know about gay lifestyle but you might be what's known as a bear - more masculine, muscled, well-padded, straight acting. There's a whole subculture around it and it's very popular, so I wouldn't worry too much about your chances

Also, while gay lifestyle is seen as being quite narrow, there tends to be a lot of different groups - you just have to think which applies best to you; like whether you like going out, clubbing, meeting people. You might be the opposite and be happy with your buddies, drinks, and videogames. Just kinda look at what's right for you and don't think you have to fit into any special clique.

WIshing you all the best, keep posting *hugs*