12-20-2010, 02:39 PM
Hi Anon,
I would say you do not have erectile dysfunction, or it is very unlikely - it's so common for guys to worry about anything down there (which is safe I guess)... but truth is you're young, probably physically fit, and not suffering any problems other than conflicting emotions.
Somebody once said the brain is the biggest sexual organ, and it's true.
If someone's not engaging you on a mental level (in terms of being aroused) and you both feel nervous, it tends to become a vicious cycle. Not only that but bodies are awkward things, and much as we want to perform like a stud 100% of the time it just doesn't happen...
It sounds like you're smart enough to know all of this already, but don't worry about it. Trite as it sounds - these things happen.
You're a healthy guy and it sounds like you still had some fun and know what you want. Focus on that and don't let it daunt you.
I would say you do not have erectile dysfunction, or it is very unlikely - it's so common for guys to worry about anything down there (which is safe I guess)... but truth is you're young, probably physically fit, and not suffering any problems other than conflicting emotions.
Somebody once said the brain is the biggest sexual organ, and it's true.
If someone's not engaging you on a mental level (in terms of being aroused) and you both feel nervous, it tends to become a vicious cycle. Not only that but bodies are awkward things, and much as we want to perform like a stud 100% of the time it just doesn't happen...
It sounds like you're smart enough to know all of this already, but don't worry about it. Trite as it sounds - these things happen.
You're a healthy guy and it sounds like you still had some fun and know what you want. Focus on that and don't let it daunt you.
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