01-02-2011, 04:29 AM
Ok here's my two cents....i agree with everyone above....he came to talk to you to make you jealous. He wanted to see how you would react and try his very best to get a raise out of you. He did this to see if he still has a hold on you which from the sounds of it he knows he does. Honestly dude I know its going to be hard to accept but if he really wanted to be with you and really cared about you and what not his ex would be nothing but that...an ex. I know from experience dude that if your in love with someone and the feeling is mutual they usually only have eyes for you and no one else especially past boyfriends. I think what happened in his mind is he never did give that guy a chance and probably wanted to see what it would have been like with him. I don't mean to be a bad news messenger but i think he choose you at first because he couldn't stand that guy so he left him and now you two had a bad break up and he wants to go running back because he feels guilty. He sounds to me like he doesn't know what he wants and I would not go back with him because if he did this once already whats to say he wont do this again or worse several times behind your back .... Its tough when you break up but trust me take it as a lesson learned. There is plenty of guys out there and im sure if this one is not your prince charming that only means he is still out there waiting for you to find him. Keep your chin up.