12-29-2010, 02:20 AM
PrinceAlbertofB: Thanks for the welcome!
And thanks for the advice about the weed. However, I was of the opinion that if we were intoxicated that that would make things a lot more comfortable for both of us, seen as the first night of that weekend will be our first time hanging out together, so the weed is kind of a neccesity in my mind.
Ok, I'll be sure to buy some condoms... but what kind of places sell lube? Do pharmacies sell it? (Sorry, I'm rather inexperienced in that area).
I know for a fact that he has had sex at least once though, it happened near the end of the last school year with a guy in the oldest year (who is gone now) who was also openly gay and they were made quite famous for it.
I've heard a couple other stories of him being permiscuous and honestly I dont have a reason to doubt them.
But, he's never told me about his experiences, I'm sure if anything he's embaressed about what he's known for.
As for the situation in my house, its just my mom and me, she works for the whole weekend, every second weekend. My dad says that he'll come down and see me if I'll call him, but it's ok if i dont.
So there isnt really any responsibility involved, I'm just the lucky benefactor of circumstance.
When you said "things get messy", were you implying anal bleeding?????
Ottowaguy04: Thanks for the comment!
And thanks for the concern, but I'm totally ready for the most intimate that could happen when he comes over.
I'm just wondering if I should wait for a while. Should I make the first move the first night? Straight away, wait a few hours...?
Or wait till the second night?
And what about the whole top/bottom issue?
I really dont know all that much about gay culture (maybe I should've read up on it beforehand :frown: ).
Is it customary to have one set top and one set bottom? Or is it ok to switch around for a bit?
Does the strongest guy go on top?
We're both a pretty similar build... I guess you would call both of us Twinks. Although, I think I'm slightly taller and stronger, and I dont much like the idea of being a bottom.
Could I have some clarification on this, please?
And thanks for the advice about the weed. However, I was of the opinion that if we were intoxicated that that would make things a lot more comfortable for both of us, seen as the first night of that weekend will be our first time hanging out together, so the weed is kind of a neccesity in my mind.
Ok, I'll be sure to buy some condoms... but what kind of places sell lube? Do pharmacies sell it? (Sorry, I'm rather inexperienced in that area).
I know for a fact that he has had sex at least once though, it happened near the end of the last school year with a guy in the oldest year (who is gone now) who was also openly gay and they were made quite famous for it.
I've heard a couple other stories of him being permiscuous and honestly I dont have a reason to doubt them.
But, he's never told me about his experiences, I'm sure if anything he's embaressed about what he's known for.
As for the situation in my house, its just my mom and me, she works for the whole weekend, every second weekend. My dad says that he'll come down and see me if I'll call him, but it's ok if i dont.
So there isnt really any responsibility involved, I'm just the lucky benefactor of circumstance.
When you said "things get messy", were you implying anal bleeding?????
Ottowaguy04: Thanks for the comment!
And thanks for the concern, but I'm totally ready for the most intimate that could happen when he comes over.
I'm just wondering if I should wait for a while. Should I make the first move the first night? Straight away, wait a few hours...?
Or wait till the second night?
And what about the whole top/bottom issue?
I really dont know all that much about gay culture (maybe I should've read up on it beforehand :frown: ).
Is it customary to have one set top and one set bottom? Or is it ok to switch around for a bit?
Does the strongest guy go on top?
We're both a pretty similar build... I guess you would call both of us Twinks. Although, I think I'm slightly taller and stronger, and I dont much like the idea of being a bottom.
Could I have some clarification on this, please?
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