12-29-2010, 03:00 AM
There's nothing "customary" that you have to do. You have to find out what you like/don't like and what the other guy likes and doesn't like... I know this is really vague but it all depends on the people and circumstances. As for bleeding it's never happened to me yet but don't be afraid to ask the guy to back off if he's hurting you or something.
Also for the first or second night thing just go with the flow. If you're ready and he's willing then go for it as soon as you feel comfortable... just try to make sure that you're both on the same page about what's going to happen.
Also for the first or second night thing just go with the flow. If you're ready and he's willing then go for it as soon as you feel comfortable... just try to make sure that you're both on the same page about what's going to happen.