Ok, so a guy is coming over to my house (for the first time)

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Ok ok.
Whoops, I thought you were being metaphorical! Sorry if I sounded vulgar >.<

Thanks for that, I started to kind of freak out while writing my last post...

And I've seen KY Jelly at a supermarket in my town, but is it really neccesary?

I wasn't being metaphorical,, just down to earth. :tongue:
Yes lube will almost surely be necessary if you are going to try anal intercourse... You can also use it just to experiment... why not. The problem with KY jelly is that it tends to get dry quite quickly. It isn't really designed for anal sex. There are other sorts of lubricants that are designed for that, but will you find them? You could do a search online to see what's available in your town. Dublin is fairly big.
In any case, if you can't find any, maybe he'll have some? You don't need to do it all on the first date anyway. Chances are you'll be feeling a little shy about it all at first, and you might not even feel comfortable discussing your needs and desires with him. I know the weed is supposed to help, but will it? If you two are talking online beforehand, you might also start discussing what you'd like to do together when the chance comes up... that way, it'll be easier to break the ice once you are together in real life.