Ok, so a guy is coming over to my house (for the first time)

[NYUstudent]

Score! Well first off, I didn't have anal sex until I tried exclusively oral stuff a few times. If you're thinking you want to go right to anal then definitely have condoms and lube on hand, just because you can't expect him to have thought of it first.

You don't want to have those things in plain sight though, he might find it presumptuous. This kid sounds like me when I was 16 and if this is the case, then yes he does expect something sexual to happen. But that doesn't mean you have to supply that for him, obviously. If you keep your head it's pretty easy to let him know that's not what you plan on doing without feeling like an asshole. Just start talking about or doing other things like coloring or video games (best things to do when stoned in my opinion.)

But if you DO want something to happen don't worry! Just stay in touch with what he seems to enjoy but also find out for yourself what you like. It should be fun! I can't wait to hear how it went/goes.