01-09-2011, 08:35 AM
Hi & Welcome to GS.
Not getting hard while he f*cked you or ever while you were with him. If it's the former then a lot of guys don't, if it's the latter were you anxious at all? Anxiety is a very major reason for loss of erection.
You've said that you find some girls cute, to be honest, that doesn't sound straight to me. The real question is how to you feel about guys? What do they do for you? Not just in bed. If you see a muscular guy on the street going shirtless in warm weather how does that make you feel. If you get talking to a cute guy with a sweet smile, are there butterflies in your stomach, are you trying to work out if he is gay, are you wondering if you and him just might become an item?
Hope this helps.
Anonymous Wrote:He even told me that maybe I wasn't gay because I wasn't getting hard.
Not getting hard while he f*cked you or ever while you were with him. If it's the former then a lot of guys don't, if it's the latter were you anxious at all? Anxiety is a very major reason for loss of erection.
You've said that you find some girls cute, to be honest, that doesn't sound straight to me. The real question is how to you feel about guys? What do they do for you? Not just in bed. If you see a muscular guy on the street going shirtless in warm weather how does that make you feel. If you get talking to a cute guy with a sweet smile, are there butterflies in your stomach, are you trying to work out if he is gay, are you wondering if you and him just might become an item?
Hope this helps.
Fred
Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans.
Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans.
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