Bf still hangs out with his Ex

[azulai]

Ok, I really don't have any experience -so feel free to ignore me. mile:
You say recent, so I don't know how recently you've started going out or how the break up was with his ex.

I would not go out with them. I would sit him down before and look him in the eye and say --don't hurt me, don't do anything behind my back, tell me to my face. This makes me _____ (fill-in-the-blank: a little uncomfortable, jealous)--whatever YOU are feeling. Be blunt but don't turn it into an argument and don't guilt him, just tell him these are the facts about what you are feeling. Then, give him the hottest kiss imaginable, and let him go.

The thing is, if he went out with someone for a very long time and the relationship just didn't work out, and they decided that all they really had was a friendship--he may just really want to catch up. Good friends are very hard to find. That would say something, to me--a good thing, about your bf's character and how he treats people in his life.

If on the other hand, it was a drama-filled breakup, then it would raise a red flag that maybe he wasn't quite over the ex.

I wish you the best.