01-11-2011, 07:39 AM
They broke up because they argued a lot. So I feel like they are "catching up" to settle things? Idk. I get paranoid.
Anyway, we just argued about him comparing himself to my recent ex. He thinks that I was more attracted to my ex than to him. That is not true. He would always ask me about my exes. He would compare my relationship to them to my relationship to him. He would always think of things that how come my exes were better than him, like I loved them more than him, you get the picture.
I just don't get it why he dwells on the past. I told him that I'm with you now and what important is us. Exes are past people. They should be left behind. At least I don't speak or meet my exes after our breakup unlike him. I don't understand why he is like that. It is so unfair. It's like whatever I say, he always thinks he's the underdog among my men in life. He thinks he is always right and I'm always wrong. He says he loves me but he does these things to me. I love him so much and I don't want to lose him. Someone help?
Anyway, we just argued about him comparing himself to my recent ex. He thinks that I was more attracted to my ex than to him. That is not true. He would always ask me about my exes. He would compare my relationship to them to my relationship to him. He would always think of things that how come my exes were better than him, like I loved them more than him, you get the picture.
I just don't get it why he dwells on the past. I told him that I'm with you now and what important is us. Exes are past people. They should be left behind. At least I don't speak or meet my exes after our breakup unlike him. I don't understand why he is like that. It is so unfair. It's like whatever I say, he always thinks he's the underdog among my men in life. He thinks he is always right and I'm always wrong. He says he loves me but he does these things to me. I love him so much and I don't want to lose him. Someone help?
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