01-10-2011, 11:25 PM
fredv3b Wrote:Cutting straight to the chase, how do you find sex with her? If its great, wonderful, satisfying, etc. then I have to ask you what is it you think you are missing out on? You've said yourself you've a lot to loose. If the sex isn't that great then it's much more complicated. I certainly would not advise dishonesty or going behind her back.
The sex is generally pretty good, sometimes its great, sometimes not so great, though we have different levels of need i guess. I'm starting to come to terms with the fact that If i try to initiate sex as much as i would like I'm going to spend a lot of time feeling rejected. Plus i think I'm more adventurous sexually. But that being said we have a reasonably healthy sex life i think.
I don't think this can be conceptualised in the context of unfulfillment in the current relationship, I've been in the same position for years - i.e. wanting to explore bisexuality - but stopped because at first i couldn't deal with it and now my relationship. It just feels like a strong biological need, or something.