I had no idea...

[matty7]

its great that your both back as freinds and you sound that you really care about his future - just be there for him and encourage him to go for this new guy he likes - just like your doing really,, a breakup is very hard on the person who didnt want to end it so i can see how upset he must have been and why he doesnt want to be hurt again - tell him you'll be there for him no matter how it turns out if your commited to having a freindship with him - its always nice to fall back on a comforting shoulder