01-17-2011, 08:22 AM
It's sad that he's like that. He sounds like he could make a great boyfriend.
I used to think like that after getting my heart broken into 180,000 pieces.
But have come to realize that it'll happen again, and it's not worth judging every potential boyfriend over your last ex(s). It's not fair to them, it's bringing in old baggage.
It's better to start fresh and over with each guy (including Recycled lol lol lol), and do your best in the relationship, With a few slight Modifications so to speak so you don't end up winding up in the same situation.
How else can I get him to be confident enough to go for it? How can I help his broken heart?
To answer your question: You can always try my method.
Say the same thing or same message (in different ways) over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again until he gets it lol.
Oh and small tip you can tell your ex boyfriend: When he meets a potential boyfriend, test him out. Run the potential boyfriend (without the potential boyfriend's knowledge) through a series of tests to test his loyalty, judgment, honesty, etc. That will tell your ex if he can really trust the potential boyfriend or not. If he's got a keeper or not lol.
Just a couple examples of slight modifications lol.
I used to think like that after getting my heart broken into 180,000 pieces.
But have come to realize that it'll happen again, and it's not worth judging every potential boyfriend over your last ex(s). It's not fair to them, it's bringing in old baggage.
It's better to start fresh and over with each guy (including Recycled lol lol lol), and do your best in the relationship, With a few slight Modifications so to speak so you don't end up winding up in the same situation.
How else can I get him to be confident enough to go for it? How can I help his broken heart?
To answer your question: You can always try my method.
Say the same thing or same message (in different ways) over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again until he gets it lol.
Oh and small tip you can tell your ex boyfriend: When he meets a potential boyfriend, test him out. Run the potential boyfriend (without the potential boyfriend's knowledge) through a series of tests to test his loyalty, judgment, honesty, etc. That will tell your ex if he can really trust the potential boyfriend or not. If he's got a keeper or not lol.
Just a couple examples of slight modifications lol.
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