my boyfriend feels like a woman

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Hi Jav,

Welcome to GS.

From your post you imply that you don't ever want to try bottoming. To which my first thought would be, are you sure that you wouldn't enjoy it despite never trying it? That said bottoming isn't for everyone, so I'll assume that you are sure or have tried it and didn't enjoy it.

My next thought is that there is more to gay sex than just anal sex. So by adding a bit more variety to your sex lives you may find things that make him feel more like a man.

But ultimately, you still want to be able to find a way of f*cking him without making him feel like a woman, because you both still enjoy it. My suggestion is letting him be the active partner and you be passive, as in he's the one putting most of the physical effort. One position is lying on your back and him sitting on your c*ck.

Hope this helps.

P.S. I can't be easy being gay in Bradford.