my boyfriend feels like a woman

[marshlander]

There have been one or two references recently to certain sexual activities feminising men with an implication that being a woman is somehow a bad thing. I find this a bit difficult to follow and let's not even touch on the implied misogyny. Two men in a relationship are clearly both men (unless one happens to be transgendered). No one can tell you that you have to enjoy, or even have, anal sex, but if you cannot offer him what he would like to experience can you make more of a fuss of his masculine attributes? Whether you tell the truth or not most men like to receive compliments about the equipment and special loving attention down there. Next time you throw him on to the bed roll him on to his back, get your head in his pants and tell him he's gorgeous!