New to this and I need help!

[portugal_the_man]

I hope it works out for you too. I know that it is a gutting experience to invest emotionally in someone and then have them pull the rug out from under you.

The hard part is trying to pose a question or situation that would definitely let you know whether or not he was gay, and at the same time not endanger your friendship if it turned out that he wasn't gay.

Good Luck in any event!