10-27-2007, 10:10 PM
And many of you are talking absolutes....
As if being straight emmediately gives you the perfect ten wife...the perfect children, the perfect vacations....some smooth road through life that being gay stops in it's tracks.
Do you have any idea how many guys out there NEVER get laid? Why do you think the porn section of any video store is the largest genre? How about having three kids and NO husband? Or three kids and some job that really only supports one? How being straight and falling for some girl who doesn't love you back? Or from another town or country.....
The reality is being gay does add a bit more of a complication, but only really if you let it. You could be straight and obese, or Jewish and fall in love with a Catholic....or fall in love and divorced in 4 years (the straight average now) and dealing with an outraged ex taking all your money and not letting you see your kids.....Or how about some aranged marriage when you really love some girl around the corner?
Life can be lonely. It doesn't really matter if you are gay or straight. The problem is many gay men attribute their loneliness with comming out....then realise that there is a lot more to life than just your sexuality...then it's a sircular blame game.
You have to work at life. There is no free pass. If you're too poor you want to be richer or too fat to be thinner or gay it would be easier being straight.....
Everyones gots problems they think are far more difficult than anyone elses. It's just life. Make the best of it. I wouldn't trade being gay for anything in the world.
As if being straight emmediately gives you the perfect ten wife...the perfect children, the perfect vacations....some smooth road through life that being gay stops in it's tracks.
Do you have any idea how many guys out there NEVER get laid? Why do you think the porn section of any video store is the largest genre? How about having three kids and NO husband? Or three kids and some job that really only supports one? How being straight and falling for some girl who doesn't love you back? Or from another town or country.....
The reality is being gay does add a bit more of a complication, but only really if you let it. You could be straight and obese, or Jewish and fall in love with a Catholic....or fall in love and divorced in 4 years (the straight average now) and dealing with an outraged ex taking all your money and not letting you see your kids.....Or how about some aranged marriage when you really love some girl around the corner?
Life can be lonely. It doesn't really matter if you are gay or straight. The problem is many gay men attribute their loneliness with comming out....then realise that there is a lot more to life than just your sexuality...then it's a sircular blame game.
You have to work at life. There is no free pass. If you're too poor you want to be richer or too fat to be thinner or gay it would be easier being straight.....
Everyones gots problems they think are far more difficult than anyone elses. It's just life. Make the best of it. I wouldn't trade being gay for anything in the world.
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