11-12-2007, 05:26 PM
Ok...an offshoot. See whether you agree or disagree with me.
After playing this with Fred, I think that all our friends would/might tend to agree with our positive perceptions, while their negatives tend to be more person specific...meaning just as much to do with them as a person as with us.
Example: Fred comes from a very controlled, reserved family. As is he. One person speaks while everyone sits watching them, and when they are finnished, the next person goes...(or not) He finds my outgoing personality often overbearing....while other friends of mine who have more outgoing personalities find this engaging and a "foil" for their own ideas and conversations.
If I'm not talking we can sit for hours without anyone saying a word (His family). My family hasn't gone without saying a word for....well, never!
So each of our positives, but especially our negatives, might be more person specific dealing as much to do with their positives and negatives as our own.
How then de we really know?
After playing this with Fred, I think that all our friends would/might tend to agree with our positive perceptions, while their negatives tend to be more person specific...meaning just as much to do with them as a person as with us.
Example: Fred comes from a very controlled, reserved family. As is he. One person speaks while everyone sits watching them, and when they are finnished, the next person goes...(or not) He finds my outgoing personality often overbearing....while other friends of mine who have more outgoing personalities find this engaging and a "foil" for their own ideas and conversations.
If I'm not talking we can sit for hours without anyone saying a word (His family). My family hasn't gone without saying a word for....well, never!
So each of our positives, but especially our negatives, might be more person specific dealing as much to do with their positives and negatives as our own.
How then de we really know?
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