01-21-2013, 07:35 PM
Must thank the recent contributions and that of Mr Nick....
In answer to your question, Nick... My man is far from anything like what we post here, and yet I find him beautiful. My luck is that not only does he please my eyes, but I can also feast my fingers on the touch of his skin and hair and his warmth. There is nothing that can replace the human touch, but our eyes are the first way that we apprehend someone and we can't deny that looking at a good-looking man (or woman) is one of life's pleasures. It's all the more voyeuristic as we can't really ogle that way in real life, so from the comfort of our own private homes and computers, it's a sport made easy.
I think if we were really critical of their looks we'd find little imperfections that don't appear unless you start comparing them with each other. Mostly, I bet these good-lookers don't even think of themselves as good-looking.
So, no, I would not like a boyfriend that would look like that if that's all he had to offer, because I not only need visual stimulation, I need someone who challenges my intellect and emotions and likes to spend time with me as much as I enjoy spending time with him. But is it a fair assumption to say that because they have been blessed with good looks, these men will be hopelessly dull, and have nothing else to offer? No, it isn't fair and I think we know it.
In answer to your question, Nick... My man is far from anything like what we post here, and yet I find him beautiful. My luck is that not only does he please my eyes, but I can also feast my fingers on the touch of his skin and hair and his warmth. There is nothing that can replace the human touch, but our eyes are the first way that we apprehend someone and we can't deny that looking at a good-looking man (or woman) is one of life's pleasures. It's all the more voyeuristic as we can't really ogle that way in real life, so from the comfort of our own private homes and computers, it's a sport made easy.
I think if we were really critical of their looks we'd find little imperfections that don't appear unless you start comparing them with each other. Mostly, I bet these good-lookers don't even think of themselves as good-looking.
So, no, I would not like a boyfriend that would look like that if that's all he had to offer, because I not only need visual stimulation, I need someone who challenges my intellect and emotions and likes to spend time with me as much as I enjoy spending time with him. But is it a fair assumption to say that because they have been blessed with good looks, these men will be hopelessly dull, and have nothing else to offer? No, it isn't fair and I think we know it.
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