What would you do if...

[fenris]

I would consider other options. Buddy you need to find someone who will treat you well and respect you and your needs. Maybe talk to your partner first and give him a chance, if he is totally unreceptive consider leaving him.

normally I would give the same advice ... I ´m not a friend of seperations and much to fast divorces... but in this case it seems for me, that his partner has no respect ... so what happens if both come into a hard situation.. maybe illness or whatever....