08-22-2011, 07:17 PM
If a woman gives you a boner, but you also get off thinking about men, you are most likely bi, the question is what percentage of you prefers men and what percentage prefers women. It's often hard to think about the same-sex stuff growing up due to what society teaches, many of us here went through similar phases of being confused. I myself realized in college and it was hard to accept at first, but eventually I realized that I couldn't change it and that it wouldn't change me into some stereotype... there are all sorts of guys out there and it's perfectly natural to be attracted to whatever/whoever you're attracted to - guys, gals or both.