08-28-2011, 07:54 AM
Marvinteck Wrote:If or when you come out to your parents and family hope for the best but prepare for the worst. I wouldn't suggest that you tell them about your new found friend at the same time that you tell them that you are gay. If they take the news that you are gay badly then they are going to be looking for some one or something to blame. Unfortunately for some parents that someone to blame is often the new boyfriend. I would wait till they warm up to the idea first and the initial shock has worn off. Take baby steps if you have to.If you're very serious about telling your parents, I'd suggest taking this route at least a little, mostly because I made sure I had a friend I could stay with just in case. I was prepared for
the worst and even my sister said I could come live with her but still. Best case; expect the worse and if thing's don't go so bad well then you can cry your eyes out with relief