08-24-2011, 03:10 AM
ZombieSlayer Wrote:It's just the way she keeps asking and pushing me to answer when i dont feel comfortable at all to answer them. especially in the class room where other people can here. i hate being in the spot light. Id answer them over a facebook message or text message but i dont wanna just explain my whole situation to her in a public class room. and it's really none of her bussiness whats gonna happen between my legs and i just dont wanna talk about it in person. and anyways my friend nicole had to stand up for me today also because she was talking about me in her study hall and i just dont wanna be the center of her attention. i dont want my personal life discussed among her friends. somethings are private.I think you are right to keep your stuff private. Just my opinion, but I wouldn't answer details about anything you're going through/planning even in private. They will probably just use it to talk about you later. I'm not trying to be mean, but just trying to be realistic.
Chances are that girl and those guys are not trying to learn anything about being transgender. They are playing games to make you feel bad or uncomfortable. They are trying to make themselves look funny and establish their little hierarchy, right there this first day of school. I've heard that same line about "but I'm inappropriate person" before from girls who think that is some how impressive.
I think if you refuse to play her/their game, they might move on. Just don't entertain their questions. To find out she was talking about you in study hall is tough, but try to ignore it and come and vent here. I'm glad you have your friend, Nicole.
I wish there was something better for me to say to help you.