08-24-2011, 01:27 AM
You are brave to admit this to yourself and maybe even more so to us. It sounds very painful.
In my teenage years I knew I wanted children and I thought I needed a special woman in my life. I even married one. She had been my best friend for years. Deciding to get married ruined the friendship and neither of us found the sort of love we wanted from being married. We made each other miserable for decades before she finally divorced me.
Try re-voicing your opening sentence and see how it sounds ... "At some point, at some level, isn't there some primal, ancestral need for a woman to want a woman?"
In my teenage years I knew I wanted children and I thought I needed a special woman in my life. I even married one. She had been my best friend for years. Deciding to get married ruined the friendship and neither of us found the sort of love we wanted from being married. We made each other miserable for decades before she finally divorced me.
Try re-voicing your opening sentence and see how it sounds ... "At some point, at some level, isn't there some primal, ancestral need for a woman to want a woman?"
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