Gays at the gym

[Jay]

Well I joined a gym to do workout and that was my only reason. I didn't see it as a 'gay harem'.

Yes, I admit that there are a lot of hot guys to ogle at but it never crossed my mind to go beyond that. I've made a few guys friends in the gym though.

In my opinion if you really want to go further with a guy at a gym, the key is to not push it. Set your mind to the main goal first, which is to do a workout in the gym. I made friends in my gym by asking them sorts of questions on workout. Befriend them and see where your friendship with them lead you to.