Can You Date Men and Women?

[Drew]

I think as long as you're honest with your hypothetical future wife about your same-sex attraction well in advance of the marriage stage, you'll be alright. It wouldn't be right to suddenly announce one night after the wedding: "oh hey honey, by the way, I kind dig dudes too.....can I log on to adam4adam.com sometimes and bone a guy on there occasionally?"......or worse........you *don't* tell her you plan on doing that and she finds out later about any extracurricular activities you may have been conducting. If you plan on being strictly monogamous with her (good luck on that), then maybe telling her isn't so important. I guess it depends on whether you'd feel happier in an open relationship or a strictly monogamous one. Make sure you're compatible with her on that or things could get ugly.