08-29-2011, 06:24 AM
Well given that you are having an ongoing sexual relationship with him, I think it is reasonable to ask questions about what it means to him. Given your friend's attitude to his sexuality, I'm not sure he's in a place mentally or emotionally where he will be able to deliver on the romantic front, at least not now. I think your plan, to talk to him about it, is the sensible course of action.