Spoiled myself.

[Marvinteck]

Well given that you are having an ongoing sexual relationship with him, I think it is reasonable to ask questions about what it means to him. Given your friend's attitude to his sexuality, I'm not sure he's in a place mentally or emotionally where he will be able to deliver on the romantic front, at least not now. I think your plan, to talk to him about it, is the sensible course of action.

Thanks for the reply. I agree as it stands right my friend wont be to give me the love and companionship I desire. I have come to realize though that I can use this opportunity to explore my sexuality more in depth with a person I feel comfortable with. I would much rather explore with him than some stranger I picked up at the bar on the pretenses of a one night stand. Im still curious about where his motives lie and what he is trying to reap from the arrangement so that is why I am still planning on talking to him about my concerns. I think once we get stuff out in the open we will be able to relax more and enjoy each others company.