08-29-2011, 09:50 PM
Well, I think what you may have in mind here are the more aggressive tops who either get more pleasure by acting overly dominant, or just feel much more powerful and don't give a damn about their current sex partner..A lot of people do that when they have no real feelings towards the bottom. I mean...yeah..when you love your partner, you are no better than him and you are trying to give him maximum pleasure too, you are equals in bed unless one or the other wants to change that for a bit or something...