08-29-2011, 11:31 PM
I think in some areas it might having something to do with if you have straight friends, etc., that you want to be perceived as a top because for those to which gay sex is strange, they probably get the top role more than they get the bottom role. I can't say I've seen top/bottom prejudices in gay guys, but I've definitely heard comments from straight people, so can see how that might rub off on some people.