11-08-2007, 04:12 PM
Ooh I'm REALLY going to enjoy answering this one :biggrin: ...
For ME, a kiss IS a very important thing, and yes - it does convey PLENTY of emotion when it's given or received. Kissing ranks equally with embracing in my eyes with regard to the conveying of emotion, and so it's very important to get it right.
That being said, it absolutely must be as natural and non-staged an experience as possible.
Therefore if I'm going to show somebody I love them, ordinarily I'll give them a big, strong hug - not enough to wind them or make them squeak, but enough to make them feel the warmth of my body, together with a sense of protection and purity from me to them.
If I'm going to kiss somebody, ordinarily it will be because it's a female friend that's coming or going, or my boyfriend ... a female friend I'd gently hug so as not to disshevel her, and then let her be on her way.
If I'm kissing somebody I'm sexually attracted to (and we are now talking back in the days when I was single), I would let them take the initiative and respond accordingly ... if they kissed gently, I would kiss gently (but perhaps a LITTLE bit stronger); if they kissed strong, I would kiss gently (and let them take over).
If they rammed their tongue down my throat ? They would get a JUDO FLIP and my knee in their eye ... :redface:.
... but I think it's like Aikido almost - you should almost allow them to do what they want, and help them along ... otherwise you're going to wind up having tongue-stylee light-saber duelling, and that's a bit more NINJA than LUVVA.
Some people are also GREAT kissers naturally ... I've had compliments myself *blushes*, where some people are naturally NOT good kissers - I view them more like clams - you just have to tease them into opening up and then enjoy their riches for yourself.
I LOVE kissing.
!?!?! Shadow !?!?!
For ME, a kiss IS a very important thing, and yes - it does convey PLENTY of emotion when it's given or received. Kissing ranks equally with embracing in my eyes with regard to the conveying of emotion, and so it's very important to get it right.
That being said, it absolutely must be as natural and non-staged an experience as possible.
Therefore if I'm going to show somebody I love them, ordinarily I'll give them a big, strong hug - not enough to wind them or make them squeak, but enough to make them feel the warmth of my body, together with a sense of protection and purity from me to them.
If I'm going to kiss somebody, ordinarily it will be because it's a female friend that's coming or going, or my boyfriend ... a female friend I'd gently hug so as not to disshevel her, and then let her be on her way.
If I'm kissing somebody I'm sexually attracted to (and we are now talking back in the days when I was single), I would let them take the initiative and respond accordingly ... if they kissed gently, I would kiss gently (but perhaps a LITTLE bit stronger); if they kissed strong, I would kiss gently (and let them take over).
If they rammed their tongue down my throat ? They would get a JUDO FLIP and my knee in their eye ... :redface:.
... but I think it's like Aikido almost - you should almost allow them to do what they want, and help them along ... otherwise you're going to wind up having tongue-stylee light-saber duelling, and that's a bit more NINJA than LUVVA.
Some people are also GREAT kissers naturally ... I've had compliments myself *blushes*, where some people are naturally NOT good kissers - I view them more like clams - you just have to tease them into opening up and then enjoy their riches for yourself.
I LOVE kissing.
!?!?! Shadow !?!?!
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