can i be striaght and still get off to gay porn?

[LateBloomer]

just wondering. i feel like im straight but gay porn turns me on.

Back in my early 20s, I went to a therapist for a few sessions in order to help me make sense of what I was feeling.

It went something like this...

Me: My first attractions were towards girls, but I think I'm starting to like guys.

Him: What makes you think you're attracted to guys?

Me: Well, for one, I watch gay porn.

Him: Ok, and you get aroused?

Me: Yeah.

Him: To the point of ejaculation?

Me: Yeah.

Him: Ok.

(Apparently he wasn't convinced this meant much because of his following suggestion)

Him: I think you need to get out there and start dating men and women and see what that feels like.

Me: :eek:

So I didn't have sex with a woman until I was 35 and I didn't have sex with a man until I was 42.

The point is, PORN IS FOR FANTASY. You won't know what's for REAL until you try it.

Good luck.