09-15-2011, 05:36 AM
The current Utne Reader has an article called 21st Century Sex (if you'd like to read it for free try googling "utne reader" with "21st century sex" and look for the article by Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam--I'd link to it but I'm not sure if that's ok). I found it really interesting and it included that straight men are often found to be drawn to penises (explaining multiple obsessions) and are drawn to view them even more than het women.
And speaking for me personally I'm as drawn to het love stories (which can include erotic elements) as much as gay ones. Ironically, I once tried my hand at writing erotica for the challenge on a board with mostly straight males. The straight males mostly wrote lesbian fics while I, the lesbian, wrote mostly het erotica. As a lover of irony I've always appreciated that. :biggrin: (Btw, they said I was very good at it and even won 2 awards against heavy competition, one lesbian and one heterosexual. That said, I'm not interested in sharing, sorry.)
And speaking for me personally I'm as drawn to het love stories (which can include erotic elements) as much as gay ones. Ironically, I once tried my hand at writing erotica for the challenge on a board with mostly straight males. The straight males mostly wrote lesbian fics while I, the lesbian, wrote mostly het erotica. As a lover of irony I've always appreciated that. :biggrin: (Btw, they said I was very good at it and even won 2 awards against heavy competition, one lesbian and one heterosexual. That said, I'm not interested in sharing, sorry.)