09-22-2011, 09:47 PM
It sounds to me like Anonymous needs to get out there and have a little field practise with girls, so he'll know whether he's straight or not.
I think some of us, before gay porn was so widely available, have used straight porn to masturbate, and it worked as well. It very much depends on where your interest lies and where your fantasies go. I'd think of assimilating with what the woman was experiencing, probably, in straight porn. It's a long time ago, I don't remember that well. So it really boils down to who you picture yourself being in the porn show. Are you the one penetrating, are you the one being penetrated? It may even hark back to stuff in our psychological development as a child, so it's really complex. I think men are very visual in their stimuli and will respond quite well to the sight of other people having sex., straight or gay.
Accepting that gay porn may stimulate you, even though you identify as straight, also means that you have curiosity for sex and are open minded enough to let you feel comfortable with this somewhat (rather) taboo form of sex. Maybe you're getting off on the idea of the transgression... Have you had sex with anyone already?
I think some of us, before gay porn was so widely available, have used straight porn to masturbate, and it worked as well. It very much depends on where your interest lies and where your fantasies go. I'd think of assimilating with what the woman was experiencing, probably, in straight porn. It's a long time ago, I don't remember that well. So it really boils down to who you picture yourself being in the porn show. Are you the one penetrating, are you the one being penetrated? It may even hark back to stuff in our psychological development as a child, so it's really complex. I think men are very visual in their stimuli and will respond quite well to the sight of other people having sex., straight or gay.
Accepting that gay porn may stimulate you, even though you identify as straight, also means that you have curiosity for sex and are open minded enough to let you feel comfortable with this somewhat (rather) taboo form of sex. Maybe you're getting off on the idea of the transgression... Have you had sex with anyone already?