can i be striaght and still get off to gay porn?

[colinmackay]

Certainly. Being straight or gay is not about what you look at when you fap. It's about who you actually have sex with. I occasionally get off to straight porn, but couldn't ever actually have sex with a girl.

I'm gay, I have had sex with a girl (I was in a 3.5 year sexual relationship way back when I was still in the closet) so it isn't simply about who you have sex with, but a whole package of things.

In hindsight, I can see a lot of differences. I just didn't have the same emotional connection (and I can't see myself ever having that type of emotional connection to a woman) as I have now. Sex was a chore, not something I really enjoyed (obviously the orgasm was nice, but... we're back to the emotional connection again... I might as well have done that on my own).