I must be a loser

[futureRD]

I wouldn't say picky. . . just don't burn bridges. Those you may not be attracted to could be some really great friends and could introduce you to someone with a lot of potential. Plus you never know how much someone will change in a year or two...

Remember "fats" can lose weight. I did. I think I'm alright looking, a total nerd, but okay. . . and there are a few people in my past that rejected me becaue of my weight, and all of a sudden I became more tempting when I lost weight. I remembered how they treated me when I was fat and wanted nothing to do with them... what's great is when those that rejected me (but weren't cruel about it) had to deal with a jealous boyfriend because I was "friends" with them... HA.

I also hunt, track, fish, camp, a 1st degree black belt, artist, and nutrition freak. Most people are shocked to learn this about me just because of first impressions. So, just make sure to play nice.... you really don't know how it will come back onto you.

When you are happy with yourself and happy with your life, you are more likely to attract the type of guy you want.