Sexual Displeasure

[marshlander]

I am sure you are not alone in thinking and feeling this way. I like Richard's suggestion that sometimes we really need someone special for things to fall into place. During my cruising days I would often find myself unable to finish and would find all that rubbing incredibly tedious. It was very much part of the mystery as to why I felt compelled to seek men out for sex.

Fortunately I did find someone for whom I had strong feelings and gained greater insight into what it was all supposed to be about. I have been with my present partner for several years and I cannot imagine needing to look elsewhere for more enjoyable sex. I think I am only able to make it work like this because we also enjoy very strong emotional bonds and intellectual connections.