Sexual Displeasure

[ZackT]

I can feel this way. You know, the idea of sex is so great and so naughty and appealing, but then you actually get to it and it's kinda boring and I wish I was just sleeping or something. I dunno. It's a mixed bag for me. On one hand, I want to last longer to justify doing it for both me and her, but on the other hand, I just want to get it over with and move on to something else.

I've never had as high a sex drive as other guys or even other girls I know. I masterbate more out of habit than anything else, I think. My mind is an obsessive one, so when an idea pops in my head (like a sexy picture or something) it just goes from there and if I can, I do my business and then I immediately drop it and move on to other stuff.

Maybe the idea that you need the right person is correct, or maybe it's just something you have to work on yourself. During my time with my girlfriend, I've increased my sex drive I think...or maybe I've just increased the amount of times I'll go for sex because she has a higher drive than I do and I want to make her happy. And it's not like having sex makes me unhappy, so it's not bad for me either.

Maybe you should try letting them climax inside of you (with a condom on preferrably just to be safe). Maybe that'll be something new and interesting to try. I dunno. You seem to be all about expirementation to figure this out, maybe you can try that.