09-22-2011, 09:11 AM
I was going to answer, but PA has saved me the trouble. That is precisely what I would have said, including mentioning the possible mutilation you didn't ask for.
I would agree also with much of what azulai wrote (so much wisdom is there in one so young, young Padawan
), especially that an event like this can shape your relationship with your father for years to come.
If your father is paying your bills, you may need to tread carefully, but if you are financially independent, hold your head (including your pierced ears) high and show him you will not be bullied ... although having backed down once you may have a little ground to make up.
Good luck.
I've been toying with the idea of having my ears pierced for years. In my case it would clearly not be a folly of youth, but I neither do I want it to be an expression of a middle age crisis. However, if I leave it much longer it'll just be seen by my family as proof of senility. :tongue:
I would agree also with much of what azulai wrote (so much wisdom is there in one so young, young Padawan
), especially that an event like this can shape your relationship with your father for years to come. If your father is paying your bills, you may need to tread carefully, but if you are financially independent, hold your head (including your pierced ears) high and show him you will not be bullied ... although having backed down once you may have a little ground to make up.
Good luck.
I've been toying with the idea of having my ears pierced for years. In my case it would clearly not be a folly of youth, but I neither do I want it to be an expression of a middle age crisis. However, if I leave it much longer it'll just be seen by my family as proof of senility. :tongue:
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