Looking good after 40

[Shadow]

Ooh good questions :biggrin:.

Well as I'm only your age, I cannot say for certain, but I would venture a couple of suggestions, such as ...

1) By the time you're 40 you REALLY should be settled professionally and lifestyle-wise ... I know this is often not the case, but in my mind that's kinda a target age ...

REALLY-speaking, you should be on your way by the time you hit 30 !!

2) Comfort stems from certainty, and certainty can come from success ... so if you're professionally successful AND comfortable with yourself, then you'll have a healthier life ethic. Less stress = better presented as a character.

3) You'll be considering retirement (not in the IMMEDIATE future, but as an idea), so you've got longer-term goals to look forward to.

HOWEVER, NEVER underestimate how people view others. I know plenty of 40+ guys who look at guys our age and younger and think we've got it made ... they forget the insecurities of being young (I'm much more secure than I was when I was, say, 18, but that's another story), and think that ours is a comparatively beautiful life ...

... the grass is always greener ...

... and babe ? Don't worry - ANY man would be lucky to have you xx

xx

!?!?! Shadow !?!?!